緣定運作手冊How Fatefully works

如何運作 How it works.

緣定先讀命盤,再看合盤,最後才安排約會。 Fatefully reads the chart first, then the compatibility, then arranges the date — in that order.

你先提交出生資料,取得簡版個人命盤報告。核實身份後,緣定才會把你的命盤納入配對;當命格相合、條件吻合,才進一步安排約會或解鎖詳細合盤分析。 You submit your birth data and receive a short personal chart report. After verification, your chart enters matching; only when the charts agree and conditions align does Fatefully arrange a date or unlock the detailed compatibility analysis.

緣定完整流程The full Fatefully flow

由出生資料到約會的六步路。 From birth data to the date — six steps.

每一步都解鎖下一步。你不會在還沒讀懂自己之前就被推到配對。 Each step unlocks the next. You are never pushed into matching before you have read your own chart.

  1. 01

    提交出生資料Submit birth data

    出生年、月、日、時間、地點、性別。Year, month, day, hour, place, gender.

  2. 02

    取得簡版個人命盤報告Receive the short personal chart

    日主、五行、性格底色、關係模式、情感需求。Day master, five elements, inner temperament, relational patterns, emotional needs.

  3. 03

    上載身份證明文件Upload identity verification

    核實出生年月日,解鎖配對功能。Verify your year, month, and day of birth — this unlocks matching.

  4. 04

    計算合盤匹配成數Calculate compatibility scores

    承托、互補、吸引、張力、關係節奏。Support, complement, attraction, tension, relational rhythm.

  5. 05

    解鎖約會安排Unlock date arrangement

    購買個人八字報告,或成為付費會員。Purchase the personal BaZi report, or become a paying member.

  6. 06

    解鎖詳細合盤分析Unlock detailed compatibility

    按配對對象付費,查看完整合盤報告。Pay per match to read the full compatibility report.

先從你的命盤開始。 Begin with your own chart.

提交出生資料,取得屬於你的簡版命盤報告,再決定下一步。 Submit your birth data, receive a short chart report that is yours alone, then decide what comes next.

預留名額 Reserve a place

先讀懂自己 · 再進入配對 Read yourself first · then matching

八字是甚麼What BaZi is

八字,又稱四柱命盤。 BaZi — also known as the Four Pillars chart.

八字源自中國古代的命理系統,至今逾千年。它根據一個人的出生年、月、日、時間,排出年柱、月柱、日柱與時柱;每柱由一個天干與一個地支組成,四柱共八個字,故稱八字。 BaZi comes from a Chinese cosmological system more than a thousand years old. From a person's year, month, day, and hour of birth it derives four pillars — year, month, day, and hour — each pairing one heavenly stem with one earthly branch. Four pillars, eight characters: BaZi.

在緣定,八字不是用來決定命運,而是用來更認真地理解一個人——他的性格底色、關係模式、情感需求,以及命盤中需要被補足和平衡的地方。 At Fatefully, BaZi is not used to dictate fate; it is used to understand a person more seriously — their inner temperament, how they relate, what they need emotionally, and where the chart asks to be balanced.

四柱代表甚麼What the four pillars stand for

四柱,分別承載四個層次。 Four pillars — four layers of a life.

年柱是根,月柱是時節,日柱是自己,時柱是延伸。每一柱都由天干與地支組成,並對應五行的傾向。日柱的天干,是命盤中最核心的「日主」。 The year pillar is the root; the month pillar is the season; the day pillar is the self; the hour pillar is what extends from the self. Each pairs a stem with a branch and leans toward one of the five elements. The stem of the day pillar is the most central reference point: the day master.

年柱Year

家世 · 根Lineage · root

水 · 金Water · Metal

月柱Month

時節 · 環境Season · environment

土 · 土Earth · Earth

日柱Day

自己 · 日主Self · day master

木 · 木Wood · Wood

日主:甲木Day master: Jiǎ wood

時柱Hour

延伸 · 後半Extension · later life

金 · 火Metal · Fire

上圖為示例命盤,僅作說明四柱與日主的位置,並非真實用戶資料。 An illustrative chart only. The pillars and day master shown are for explanation, not a real user's data.

天干與地支Heavenly stems & earthly branches

十天干、十二地支。 Ten heavenly stems · twelve earthly branches.

天干像外在的氣,描述一個人在世界裏顯露出來的樣子;地支像內在的根,承載性格、情感與關係的底層結構。 Heavenly stems read like outer breath — how a person shows up in the world. Earthly branches read like an inner root — the underlying structure of temperament, feeling, and relationships.

十天干Ten stems

十二地支Twelve branches

天干與地支配合排出四柱;地支之間的合、沖、刑、害,則是命盤裏命格與命格之間的「關係動作」,緣定在合盤時會仔細留意。 Stems and branches combine into the four pillars; among branches, the patterns of combination, clash, penalty, and harm are the chart's "relational gestures" — Fatefully reads them carefully when looking at compatibility.

五行與平衡Five elements & balance

木、火、土、金、水——相生與相剋。 Wood · Fire · Earth · Metal · Water — generation and restraint.

五行不是吉凶清單。木生火、火生土、土生金、金生水、水生木;木剋土、土剋水、水剋火、火剋金、金剋木。相剋並不一定是壞事——當命盤過旺,剛好需要被收一收。緣定看的是整體的平衡。 The five elements are not a list of "good" and "bad". Wood feeds fire, fire feeds earth, earth feeds metal, metal feeds water, water feeds wood; and wood restrains earth, earth restrains water, water restrains fire, fire restrains metal, metal restrains wood. Restraint is not always negative — when a chart runs too strong, it is exactly what brings it back into balance. Fatefully reads the whole, not a single line.

命盤 AChart A命盤偏燥,需要水來收一收。Runs hot — needs water to settle.

命盤 BChart B天干透癸、地支見亥,水氣自然。Stem 癸 surfaces, branch 亥 anchors — water comes naturally.

合盤TogetherB 對 A 形成承托——這就是五行互補的雛形。B supports A — the basic shape of five-element complement.

日主、十神與喜用Day master · ten gods · favourable elements

命盤的中心,是「日主」。 The day master is the centre of the chart.

日主是日柱的天干,代表「自己」。命盤裏的其他天干與地支,會以日主為中心,分成十種關係,稱為十神:正官、七殺、正財、偏財、正印、偏印、食神、傷官、比肩、劫財。 The day master is the stem of the day pillar — the self. Every other stem and branch in the chart is read in relation to it, classified into ten archetypes known as the Ten Gods: 正官 / 七殺 / 正財 / 偏財 / 正印 / 偏印 / 食神 / 傷官 / 比肩 / 劫財.

十神揭示一個人怎樣處理權威、責任、慾望、安全感、表達與親密。命盤中有些五行會帶來幫助,稱為「喜用」;有些會帶來消耗,稱為「忌神」。 The Ten Gods reveal how a person relates to authority, responsibility, desire, security, expression, and intimacy. Within a chart, some elements help — these are 喜用 (favourable). Others drain — these are 忌神 (unfavourable).

真實的喜用與忌神,需要結合整張命盤判斷;上圖只是十神的位置示意。 Identifying 喜用 / 忌神 in practice requires reading the full chart; the diagram above only illustrates where the Ten Gods sit around the day master.

桃花、姻緣、妻星與夫星Peach blossom · marital affinity · spouse stars

命盤裏,關係是被怎樣讀的。 How a chart speaks about relationships.

八字並沒有一個按鈕說「這個人是你的緣分」;它是用幾組互相參照的訊號,去描繪一個人在親密關係裏的型態、節奏和時機。緣定特別會留意以下幾組。 BaZi does not contain a single switch labelled "this is your match". It uses a small set of cross-referenced signals to describe how a person carries themselves in intimate life — their pattern, their rhythm, their timing. Fatefully reads these together rather than singly.

桃花

桃花是命盤裏關於「魅力」與「異性緣」的訊號,由地支組合判斷,分為將星桃花、墻外桃花、桃花劫等多種型態。它本身不是吉或凶——它描述的是一個人在親密關係裏散發出來的氣場,以及容易吸引到甚麼樣的對象。Peach blossom (桃花) is the chart's reading of allure and the way one draws others. It is identified through specific branch combinations and comes in several types — including 將星桃花 (composed, dignified pull), 墻外桃花 (outward, far-reaching pull), and 桃花劫 (allure that complicates rather than calms). It is neither lucky nor unlucky in itself; it describes the field a person gives off in intimate life and the kind of company that field tends to attract.

姻緣

姻緣不只是「桃花運」。它指的是一段認真的關係能否在現實中走得起來,需要命盤、伴侶宮、十神、五行平衡,加上大運與流年的配合,才有真正的時機。緣定看的,是這幾層之間能不能相互支持。姻緣 is not the same as a streak of romantic luck. It refers to whether a serious bond can actually take root in real life — which depends on the chart, the partnership seat (日支), the ten gods, the elemental balance, and how all of these align with the current luck pillar and annual cycle. Fatefully reads whether those layers genuinely support each other.

妻星 / 夫星

在傳統八字中,「妻星」與「夫星」是觀察伴侶訊號時常用的一組參考,並非絕對規則。一般而言,男命會參考財星(日主所剋的五行),代表伴侶的訊號;女命則參考官殺(剋日主的五行),代表伴侶的訊號。緣定保留這個傳統參考,但不會把任何人化約成單一個字。In classical BaZi, 妻星 (spouse star, traditionally read for male charts) and 夫星 (spouse star, traditionally read for female charts) are reference points used to observe partner-related signals — not deterministic rules. Conventionally, male charts look at 財星 (the element the day master controls) for these signals; female charts look at 官殺 (the element that controls the day master). Fatefully retains this traditional lens, but never reduces anyone to a single character.

桃花、姻緣、妻星與夫星,從來不是單一指標。緣定會把它們和日主、伴侶宮、十神、五行平衡、大運與流年,加上你提交的真實擇偶條件一起讀。沒有任何一個符號可以單獨決定一段關係——這是緣定的閱讀立場。 Peach blossom, marital affinity, and spouse stars are never read in isolation. Fatefully holds them alongside the day master, the partnership seat, the ten gods, elemental balance, the luck pillars and annual cycle — together with the real-life criteria you submit. No single symbol decides a relationship; that is Fatefully's reading stance.

陰陽與大運方向Yin / yang & the direction of luck pillars

命盤的時間軸,從陰陽開始。 The chart's timeline begins with yin and yang.

天干分陰陽:甲丙戊庚壬為陽,乙丁己辛癸為陰。配合性別,會分為陽男、陰男、陽女、陰女四種起運型態。陽男與陰女的大運順排,陰男與陽女的大運逆排——這就是「大運方向」。 The ten stems split yin and yang: 甲丙戊庚壬 are yang, 乙丁己辛癸 are yin. Combined with gender, this yields four configurations: yang-male, yin-male, yang-female, yin-female. Yang-male and yin-female read their luck pillars forward; yin-male and yang-female read them in reverse. This is the "direction of luck pillars".

起運之後,每一段大運會帶來一段不同的氣場;流年則是當年的能量。對親密關係而言,這代表「相遇的時機」——什麼時候適合認真開始一段關係,什麼時候宜守不宜攻。 Once the luck pillars begin, each ten-year cycle carries a distinct field; the annual cycle (流年) describes that single year's weather. For intimate life, these explain the timing of meeting — when a serious relationship is genuinely supported, and when it is wiser to wait.

緣定會看甚麼What Fatefully reads

命盤、合盤、與時間。 The chart, the compatibility, and time.

緣定不會把這些術語直接拋給你;它們是後台的閱讀框架,幫助緣定更認真地對待你的命盤。 Fatefully does not throw these terms at you in the product; they are the reading framework behind the scenes, used to take your chart seriously.

排盤基礎Charting

  • 節氣
  • 四柱
  • 天干地支

命盤平衡Chart balance

  • 日主
  • 五行
  • 日主強弱
  • 喜用
  • 忌神

關係模式Relational pattern

  • 十神
  • 伴侶宮
  • 桃花

合盤互動Compatibility

  • 承托
  • 互補
  • 張力

時間節奏Timing

  • 陰陽
  • 起運
  • 大運
  • 流年

八字如何用於合盤How BaZi feeds compatibility

兩張命盤之間的五個閱讀層次。 Five reading layers between two charts.

把兩張命盤放在一起,緣定會看五個層次:承托(誰補誰的命盤)、互補(彼此缺的,對方剛好有)、吸引(命盤之間的牽引力)、張力(關係裏需要被留意的位置)、以及時機(兩個人的大運與流年是否走得上來)。 Held side by side, two charts are read across five layers: support (who fills whose chart), complement (where one supplies what the other lacks), attraction (the pull between the charts), tension (positions worth attending to), and timing (whether the two luck pillars and annual cycles can meet).

合盤匹配成數Compatibility score

由以上五層綜合得出Synthesised from the five layers above

功能如何解鎖How features unlock

三個解鎖節點,順序開啟。 Three unlock points, opened in order.

緣定不是一次過把全部功能交給你,而是按你已準備好的程度,逐步開放。 Fatefully does not hand you every feature at once; it opens each one as you become ready for it.

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解鎖配對功能Unlock matching

上載身份證明文件,核實出生年月日。命盤被納入配對池,緣定才會開始為你計算合盤。Upload an identity document so your year, month, and day of birth can be verified. Only then does your chart enter the matching pool and compatibility calculation begins.

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解鎖約會安排Unlock date arrangement

購買個人八字報告,或成為付費會員。緣定會在命格相合、條件吻合的基礎上,為你安排真正值得見面的對象。Purchase the personal BaZi report, or become a paying member. On the basis of compatible charts and matching conditions, Fatefully arranges dates with people genuinely worth meeting.

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解鎖詳細合盤分析Unlock detailed compatibility analysis

按配對對象付費,查看完整合盤報告——承托、互補、吸引、張力,以及這段關係是否值得真正開始。Pay per match to read the full compatibility report — support, complement, attraction, tension, and whether the relationship is genuinely worth starting.

為甚麼需要核實Why verification matters

命盤要可信,合盤才可信。 Only a credible chart yields credible compatibility.

八字以出生資料為起點。資料若不準確,整張命盤、整段合盤分析都會跟著走偏;緣定看見的,未必是真實的你。 BaZi begins from birth data. If the data is wrong, the chart drifts; if the chart drifts, every compatibility reading drifts with it. What Fatefully then sees would not actually be you.

因此緣定在進入配對之前,會請你上載身份證明文件,核實出生年月日。這是為了讓配對池裏的每一個人,都是認真把命盤當作自己的人——也是為了保護你不會被錯填的命盤誤導。 That is why, before matching begins, Fatefully asks you to upload an identity document so your year, month, and day of birth can be verified. It keeps the matching pool to people who treat their own chart seriously — and protects you from being misled by a casually-filled chart on the other side.

先讀命盤,再看合盤,最後才安排約會。 Read the chart, then the compatibility, then the date.

如果這個次序對你而言是合理的,緣定為你預留位置。 If that order makes sense to you, Fatefully has a place set aside for you.

預留名額 Reserve a place

名額有限 · 逐步開放 Limited places · opening slowly