年柱Year
家世 · 根Lineage · root
癸
酉
水 · 金Water · Metal
緣定運作手冊How Fatefully works
如何運作 How it works.
緣定的次序很簡單：先讀個人命盤，再看雙人合盤，最後才把現實條件放進篩選。當命格、關係邏輯與生活條件同時合適，才會推進到一次值得見面的介紹。 Fatefully follows a deliberate order: first the individual chart, then the compatibility between two charts, and only then the real-world conditions. An introduction moves forward only when the chart, relationship logic, and practical fit are aligned.
下面先解釋緣定怎樣讀一張八字命盤——四柱、天干地支、五行、十神、桃花與大運——再說明兩張命盤如何一起判斷。這是後台的閱讀框架，讓緣定更認真地對待每一個人。 Below we explain how Fatefully reads a single BaZi chart — the four pillars, stems and branches, five elements, ten gods, peach blossom and luck pillars — and then how two charts are read together. It is the framework behind the scenes, used to take each person seriously.
運作次序The process
三個次序，逐步靠近。 Three steps, drawing closer.
01
個人命盤The individual chart
先讀懂一個人。First, understand a person.
先理解日主、五行、四柱，以及一個人的情感節奏與關係需要。這不是為人貼標籤，而是為了清晰。Begin with the day master, the five elements and the four pillars — a person's emotional rhythm and what they need in a relationship. Not to label anyone, but to see clearly.
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雙人合盤Compatibility of two charts
再看兩個人之間的關係。Then read what happens between two.
把兩張命盤放在一起，讀出承托、互補、吸引、張力與時機——關係是互動出來的。Held side by side, two charts reveal support, complement, attraction, tension and timing — a relationship is an interaction, not two profiles added together.
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條件與相遇Conditions & meeting
最後，才對照現實條件。Only then, the real-world conditions.
命盤相合之後，才看年齡、地點、關係意向與生活節奏；三者吻合，才慎重安排一次值得見面的介紹。After the charts align, we weigh age, location, relationship intention and life rhythm. Only when all three fit do we arrange a meeting worth having.
先從你的命盤開始。 Begin with your own chart.
留下基本與出生資料，緣定會在合適的邀請階段，帶你進入下一步。 Leave your basic and birth details; when the invitation phase suits you, Fatefully takes you to the next step.
八字是甚麼What BaZi is
八字，又稱四柱命盤。 BaZi — also known as the Four Pillars chart.
八字源自中國古代的命理系統，至今逾千年。它根據一個人的出生年、月、日、時間，排出年柱、月柱、日柱與時柱；每柱由一個天干與一個地支組成，四柱共八個字，故稱八字。 BaZi comes from a Chinese cosmological system more than a thousand years old. From a person's year, month, day, and hour of birth it derives four pillars — year, month, day, and hour — each pairing one heavenly stem with one earthly branch. Four pillars, eight characters: BaZi.
在緣定，八字不是用來決定命運，而是用來更認真地理解一個人——他的性格底色、關係模式、情感需求，以及命盤中需要被補足和平衡的地方。 At Fatefully, BaZi is not used to dictate fate; it is used to understand a person more seriously — their inner temperament, how they relate, what they need emotionally, and where the chart asks to be balanced.
四柱代表甚麼What the four pillars stand for
四柱，分別承載四個層次。 Four pillars — four layers of a life.
年柱是根，月柱是時節，日柱是自己，時柱是延伸。每一柱都由天干與地支組成，並對應五行的傾向。日柱的天干，是命盤中最核心的「日主」。 The year pillar is the root; the month pillar is the season; the day pillar is the self; the hour pillar is what extends from the self. Each pairs a stem with a branch and leans toward one of the five elements. The stem of the day pillar is the most central reference point: the day master.
月柱Month
時節 · 環境Season · environment
己
未
土 · 土Earth · Earth
日柱Day
自己 · 日主Self · day master
甲
寅
木 · 木Wood · Wood
日主：甲木Day master: Jiǎ wood
時柱Hour
延伸 · 後半Extension · later life
庚
午
金 · 火Metal · Fire
上圖為示例命盤，僅作說明四柱與日主的位置，並非真實用戶資料。 An illustrative chart only. The pillars and day master shown are for explanation, not a real user's data.
天干與地支Heavenly stems & earthly branches
十天干、十二地支。 Ten heavenly stems · twelve earthly branches.
天干像外在的氣，描述一個人在世界裏顯露出來的樣子；地支像內在的根，承載性格、情感與關係的底層結構。 Heavenly stems read like outer breath — how a person shows up in the world. Earthly branches read like an inner root — the underlying structure of temperament, feeling, and relationships.
十天干Ten stems
- 甲
- 乙
- 丙
- 丁
- 戊
- 己
- 庚
- 辛
- 壬
- 癸
十二地支Twelve branches
- 子
- 丑
- 寅
- 卯
- 辰
- 巳
- 午
- 未
- 申
- 酉
- 戌
- 亥
天干與地支配合排出四柱；地支之間的合、沖、刑、害，則是命盤裏命格與命格之間的「關係動作」，緣定在合盤時會仔細留意。 Stems and branches combine into the four pillars; among branches, the patterns of combination, clash, penalty, and harm are the chart's "relational gestures" — Fatefully reads them carefully when looking at compatibility.
五行與平衡Five elements & balance
木、火、土、金、水——相生與相剋。 Wood · Fire · Earth · Metal · Water — generation and restraint.
五行不是吉凶清單。木生火、火生土、土生金、金生水、水生木；木剋土、土剋水、水剋火、火剋金、金剋木。相剋並不一定是壞事——當命盤過旺，剛好需要被收一收。緣定看的是整體的平衡。 The five elements are not a list of "good" and "bad". Wood feeds fire, fire feeds earth, earth feeds metal, metal feeds water, water feeds wood; and wood restrains earth, earth restrains water, water restrains fire, fire restrains metal, metal restrains wood. Restraint is not always negative — when a chart runs too strong, it is exactly what brings it back into balance. Fatefully reads the whole, not a single line.
命盤 AChart A命盤偏燥，需要水來收一收。Runs hot — needs water to settle.
命盤 BChart B天干透癸、地支見亥，水氣自然。Stem 癸 surfaces, branch 亥 anchors — water comes naturally.
合盤TogetherB 對 A 形成承托——這就是五行互補的雛形。B supports A — the basic shape of five-element complement.
日主、十神與喜用Day master · ten gods · favourable elements
命盤的中心，是「日主」。 The day master is the centre of the chart.
日主是日柱的天干，代表「自己」。命盤裏的其他天干與地支，會以日主為中心，分成十種關係，稱為十神：正官、七殺、正財、偏財、正印、偏印、食神、傷官、比肩、劫財。 The day master is the stem of the day pillar — the self. Every other stem and branch in the chart is read in relation to it, classified into ten archetypes known as the Ten Gods: 正官 / 七殺 / 正財 / 偏財 / 正印 / 偏印 / 食神 / 傷官 / 比肩 / 劫財.
十神揭示一個人怎樣處理權威、責任、慾望、安全感、表達與親密。命盤中有些五行會帶來幫助，稱為「喜用」；有些會帶來消耗，稱為「忌神」。 The Ten Gods reveal how a person relates to authority, responsibility, desire, security, expression, and intimacy. Within a chart, some elements help — these are 喜用 (favourable). Others drain — these are 忌神 (unfavourable).
真實的喜用與忌神，需要結合整張命盤判斷；上圖只是十神的位置示意。 Identifying 喜用 / 忌神 in practice requires reading the full chart; the diagram above only illustrates where the Ten Gods sit around the day master.
桃花、姻緣、妻星與夫星Peach blossom · marital affinity · spouse stars
命盤裏，關係是被怎樣讀的。 How a chart speaks about relationships.
八字並沒有一個按鈕說「這個人是你的緣分」；它是用幾組互相參照的訊號，去描繪一個人在親密關係裏的型態、節奏和時機。緣定特別會留意以下幾組。 BaZi does not contain a single switch labelled "this is your match". It uses a small set of cross-referenced signals to describe how a person carries themselves in intimate life — their pattern, their rhythm, their timing. Fatefully reads these together rather than singly.
桃花
桃花是命盤裏關於「魅力」與「異性緣」的訊號，由地支組合判斷，分為將星桃花、墻外桃花、桃花劫等多種型態。它本身不是吉或凶——它描述的是一個人在親密關係裏散發出來的氣場，以及容易吸引到甚麼樣的對象。Peach blossom (桃花) is the chart's reading of allure and the way one draws others. It is identified through specific branch combinations and comes in several types — including 將星桃花 (composed, dignified pull), 墻外桃花 (outward, far-reaching pull), and 桃花劫 (allure that complicates rather than calms). It is neither lucky nor unlucky in itself; it describes the field a person gives off in intimate life and the kind of company that field tends to attract.
姻緣
姻緣不只是「桃花運」。它指的是一段認真的關係能否在現實中走得起來，需要命盤、伴侶宮、十神、五行平衡，加上大運與流年的配合，才有真正的時機。緣定看的，是這幾層之間能不能相互支持。姻緣 is not the same as a streak of romantic luck. It refers to whether a serious bond can actually take root in real life — which depends on the chart, the partnership seat (日支), the ten gods, the elemental balance, and how all of these align with the current luck pillar and annual cycle. Fatefully reads whether those layers genuinely support each other.
妻星 / 夫星
在傳統八字中，「妻星」與「夫星」是觀察伴侶訊號時常用的一組參考，並非絕對規則。一般而言，男命會參考財星（日主所剋的五行），代表伴侶的訊號；女命則參考官殺（剋日主的五行），代表伴侶的訊號。緣定保留這個傳統參考，但不會把任何人化約成單一個字。In classical BaZi, 妻星 (spouse star, traditionally read for male charts) and 夫星 (spouse star, traditionally read for female charts) are reference points used to observe partner-related signals — not deterministic rules. Conventionally, male charts look at 財星 (the element the day master controls) for these signals; female charts look at 官殺 (the element that controls the day master). Fatefully retains this traditional lens, but never reduces anyone to a single character.
桃花、姻緣、妻星與夫星，從來不是單一指標。緣定會把它們和日主、伴侶宮、十神、五行平衡、大運與流年，加上你提交的真實擇偶條件一起讀。沒有任何一個符號可以單獨決定一段關係——這是緣定的閱讀立場。 Peach blossom, marital affinity, and spouse stars are never read in isolation. Fatefully holds them alongside the day master, the partnership seat, the ten gods, elemental balance, the luck pillars and annual cycle — together with the real-life criteria you submit. No single symbol decides a relationship; that is Fatefully's reading stance.
陰陽與大運方向Yin / yang & the direction of luck pillars
命盤的時間軸，從陰陽開始。 The chart's timeline begins with yin and yang.
天干分陰陽：甲丙戊庚壬為陽，乙丁己辛癸為陰。配合性別，會分為陽男、陰男、陽女、陰女四種起運型態。陽男與陰女的大運順排，陰男與陽女的大運逆排——這就是「大運方向」。 The ten stems split yin and yang: 甲丙戊庚壬 are yang, 乙丁己辛癸 are yin. Combined with gender, this yields four configurations: yang-male, yin-male, yang-female, yin-female. Yang-male and yin-female read their luck pillars forward; yin-male and yang-female read them in reverse. This is the "direction of luck pillars".
起運之後，每一段大運會帶來一段不同的氣場；流年則是當年的能量。對親密關係而言，這代表「相遇的時機」——什麼時候適合認真開始一段關係，什麼時候宜守不宜攻。 Once the luck pillars begin, each ten-year cycle carries a distinct field; the annual cycle (流年) describes that single year's weather. For intimate life, these explain the timing of meeting — when a serious relationship is genuinely supported, and when it is wiser to wait.
我們看甚麼What we read
命盤不是答案本身，
而是理解關係的入口。
A chart is not the answer itself — it is the way into understanding a relationship.
緣定從幾個層次讀一張命盤：四柱、日主、五行、情感模式，以及命盤中喜用與承托的部分。它們合起來，描繪出一個人如何相處、如何被理解、需要甚麼樣的關係。 Fatefully reads a chart across a few layers: the four pillars, the day master, the five elements, emotional patterns, and where the chart is favoured or supported. Together they describe how a person relates, how they are understood, and what kind of bond they need.
四柱Four pillars
出生的年、月、日、時，排出四柱——命盤的整體結構，遠比生肖速配細緻。Year, month, day and hour form the four pillars — the full structure of a chart, far more precise than a zodiac shorthand.
日主Day master
日主代表「自己」，是理解一個人性情、需要與在關係裏位置的起點。The day master stands for the self — the starting point for temperament, needs, and one's place in a relationship.
五行Five elements
木、火、土、金、水的傾向與平衡，透露一個人的底色與需要被補足的地方。The lean and balance of Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal and Water reveal a person's colour and what asks to be balanced.
情感模式Emotional pattern
一個人如何靠近、如何信任、如何被理解——關係裏的節奏與需要。How a person draws closer, learns to trust, and needs to be understood — the rhythm of a relationship.
喜用與承托Favoured & supporting
命盤裏能帶來滋養與平衡的部分，也是判斷兩個人能否互相承托的線索。The parts of a chart that bring nourishment and balance — and a clue to whether two people can hold each other up.
個人命盤 Personal chart
日主 Day master 甲木 Jiǎ · Yang Wood 陽木 · 向上而立 Upright, growing toward light
年柱Year
癸水Water
酉
月柱Month
己土Earth
未土Earth
日柱Day
甲木Wood
寅木Wood
時柱Hour
庚
午火Fire
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性格底色Inner temperament
如甲木向陽，重視成長、方向與承擔。慢熟而長情。Like Yang Wood reaching for light: values growth, direction and quiet responsibility. Slow to open, long to remain.
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關係模式How you relate
需要被理解，也需要穩定節奏。先建立信任，才願意展露柔軟。Needs to be understood, and needs steady pacing. Trust first; tenderness follows.
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情感需求What you need
渴望被滋養，也希望被欣賞。喜歡在安靜相處之間慢慢靠近。Hopes to be nourished and to be seen. Draws closer through quiet, unhurried company.
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命盤需要被補足的地方What the chart needs in balance
水：滋養、情緒流動、柔和承托，能讓甲木更舒展。Water — gentle holding, emotional flow, the kind of presence that lets Yang Wood stretch and soften.
上圖為示例命盤，僅作說明，並非真實用戶資料。 An illustrative chart for explanation only — not a real user's data.
合盤如何判斷Compatibility logic
合盤看的是兩個人之間的關係邏輯。 Compatibility reads the logic between two people.
緣定把兩張命盤放在一起，讀出五個層次。每一層都在問一個關於關係的問題，而不是給出一個分數。 Two charts are read together across five layers. Each layer asks a question about the relationship rather than handing back a number.
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承托 / SupportSupport
是否能讓彼此安定、被理解、被滋養。Whether the two can settle each other, feel understood, and be nourished.
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互補 / ComplementComplement
是否能補足對方命盤中較需要的部分。Whether each supplies what the other's chart most needs.
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吸引 / AttractionAttraction
是否有自然靠近、欣賞與牽引。Whether there is a natural closeness, appreciation and pull.
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張力 / TensionTension
哪些地方容易誤解、衝突，或需要成熟處理。Where misunderstanding or friction may arise, and what asks for maturity.
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時機 / TimingTiming
當下是否適合推進關係與見面。Whether this is a time when the relationship, and a meeting, can genuinely move forward.
合盤匹配成數Compatibility score
由以上五層綜合得出Synthesised from the five layers above
合盤分數只是一個摘要，不是結論。緣定更重視分數背後的原因：為甚麼相合、何處互補、哪裡需要慎重。 A compatibility score is a summary, not a conclusion. Fatefully cares more about the reasons behind it — why two charts agree, where they complement, and where care is needed.
每週介紹Weekly introduction
每週一位，慎重安排。 One introduction a week, arranged with care.
緣定不承諾數量。介紹只會在命格相合、合盤合適、條件吻合時發生——當三者同時具備，才會慎重安排一次相遇。寧願少，也要對。 Fatefully does not promise volume. An introduction happens only when the chart, the compatibility and the conditions all align — and then it is arranged with care. We would rather introduce fewer, and introduce well.
本週介紹This week's introduction
- 命格相合Charts aligned
- 條件吻合Conditions matched
- 建議形式Suggested format
- 晚餐Dinner
- 地點氣質Setting
- 中環 · 安靜私密Central · quiet, private
- 時間Time
- 週五 7:30 PMFriday · 7:30 PM
- 今日宜 / 忌Today · fitting / to avoid
- 宜細談 · 忌操之過急Fitting: unhurried talk · Avoid: rushing
上圖為網站示意，用以說明一次介紹的氣質，並非公開網站上的即時功能。 The card above is a website illustration of what an introduction feels like — not a live feature on the public site.
私密與核實Privacy and verification
公開網站只做預留，完整流程會在受保護環境中進行。 The public site is only for reserving; the full process takes place in a protected environment.
這個公開網站只收集基本與出生資料。身份證明、付款、完整報告與詳細合盤分析，都不會在公開網站上處理。私隱政策與服務條款公開可查，你隨時可以要求查閱或刪除你的資料。 This public website collects only basic and birth details. ID documents, payment, the full report and detailed synastry are never processed on the public site. Our Privacy and Terms are published, and you may request access to or deletion of your data at any time.
公開網站會收集Collected here
預留所需的基本資料Basics for your reservation
- 姓名與電郵Name and email
- 出生日期、時間、地點Birth date, time, place
- 所在地區與性別Location and gender
公開網站不會處理Never handled here
敏感與受保護的資料Sensitive, protected data
- 身份證明文件ID documents
- 付款資料Payment details
- 完整報告與詳細合盤分析Full report & detailed synastry
你的權利Your rights
公開、可查、可刪除Open, and yours to revoke
- 私隱政策公開可查Privacy policy is public
- 服務條款公開可查Terms are public
- 可要求查閱或刪除資料Request access or deletion
常見問題FAQ
在你預留之前，值得先知道的事。 A few things worth knowing first.
為甚麼需要出生時間？Why does birth time matter?
出生時間決定時柱，也影響整張命盤的平衡。有了準確的時間，緣定才能更貼近地讀懂你的情感節奏與關係需要。The hour of birth sets the hour pillar and shapes the balance of the whole chart. With an accurate time, Fatefully can read your emotional rhythm and relational needs far more faithfully.
如果不知道準確出生時間怎樣辦？What if my birth time is unknown?
仍可先預留。你可以先提供已知的資料，之後在受保護的流程中再補上或核對出生時間。You can still reserve. Provide what you know for now, and confirm or add the birth time later, inside the protected flow.
合盤分數是否代表結果？Does the score determine the result?
不是。分數只是五個層次的摘要。緣定更重視分數背後的原因：為甚麼相合、何處互補、哪裡需要慎重。No. The score is only a summary of the five layers. Fatefully cares more about the reasons behind it — why two charts agree, where they complement, and where care is needed.
是否一定會被介紹？Is an introduction guaranteed?
不會保證。只有在命格相合、條件吻合時，才會慎重安排一次相遇。緣定重視的是合適，而不是數量。No. An introduction is arranged only when the charts align and the conditions match. Fatefully values fit over volume.
這是否完整服務？Is this the full service?
這個公開網站是緣定的第一步，只做預留。完整的命盤報告、詳細合盤分析與安排流程，會在受保護的環境中進行，不在公開網站上。This public website is the first step and is only for reserving. The full chart report, detailed synastry and the arrangement flow take place in a protected environment — not on the public site.